Kashmiri weddings, much like the breathtaking landscapes they are set against, are beautiful, and a captivating mix of age-old traditions that are truly mesmerising to be a part of. From lip smacking food to elegant attires donned by the bride and groom, to enchanting familial customs; being a part of a Kashmiri wedding is an unforgettable journey that is sure to linger in your heart for years to come. So here's presenting a few of many such stunning Kashmiri traditions that you can weave into your wedding celebrations to create an unforgettable experience!
1. The Mehendi Ceremony
Not a stranger to most Indian weddings, the Mehendi ceremony holds special significance in Kashmiri culture too. During this vibrant celebration, intricate henna designs are applied to the bride’s hands and feet, symbolising joy, love, and prosperity. Usually an outdoor event with family, friends, a ton of live music and traditional Kashmiri folk dances, it's the henna designs that makes a Kashmiri mehendi stand out from the lot. The fine designs can be personalised, reflecting your journey with your partner together!
2. Traditional Attire
Kashmiri attire has taken up social media and desi dressers by storm. From its kurtis to sarees to its embroidery; and a chance to host a wedding in Kashmir and not incorporate their local clothing styles into your wedding wardrobe would be a major miss. The one time chance to embrace the richness of Kashmiri ensembles, the bride can adorn herself in a stunning Kashmiri bridal piece, complete with a Pashmina shawl, while the groom can opt for a traditional Kashmiri outfit like a Pheran. Or a fun souvenir to give back would be gifting such Kashmiri apparels to your guests as a cherished memory.
3. The Aari Embroidery
Much like all of a Kashmiri wardrobe, it is the exquisite Aari embroidery that captivates true craftsmanship lovers. A craft that has been passed down through generations, you can also incorporate this art into your wedding attire, decor, or even wedding invitations! The stunning embroidery, often featuring floral patterns and intricate designs is dynamic indeed so don't be afraid to showcase it on bridal lehengas, sherwanis, or even in the form of beautifully embroidered tablecloths and wall hangings for the reception. This will not only enhance the aesthetic of the wedding but also support local artisans and preserve this cultural heritage.
4. The Dastar Bandi Ceremony
The most alluring part of Kashmiri weddings is their Dastar Bandi ceremony, or the turban-tying ceremony. A significant ritual in Kashmiri culture that symbolises a young man's coming of age, the dastar is much like the “mukut” for bengali weddings or a “sehra” in a Punjabi wedding. This tradition can be included in your wedding as a beautiful gesture to respect and honour the land. Usually performed by the groom's father or elder male relative, this can be a touching moment for both families.
5. The Wazwan Feast
Rightfully agreed upon by everyone, food is the epitome of love language and no Kashmiri wedding is complete without the Wazwan- a traditional multi-course meal that reflects the region’s rich culinary heritage and appetite. Featuring dishes like Rogan Josh, Yakhni, and Gushtaba, the Wazwan is a gastronomic delight. Couples can incorporate a traditional Kashmiri feast into their wedding reception, offering guests a taste of the region’s flavours; because what better way to know a place than taste its cuisine right? A live kitchen setup can also enhance the experience, allowing guests to witness the preparation of these exquisite dishes firsthand.
5. The Traditional Kashmiri Shikara Ride
Blame movie depictions or simply the beauty of it, but a shikara ride has become eponymous with Kashmir. This traditional wooden boat offers a serene and romantic setting, perfect for pre-wedding photoshoots or intimate moments away from the hustle and bustle of the celebrations. For a truly enchanting experience, couples can consider organising a Shikara ride on Dal Lake as part of their wedding festivities. Decorate the Shikara with flowers and fairy lights for a magical ambiance. This experience, rooted with Kashmiri culture’s depiction to the rest of the world, will provide breathtaking memories and views to guests alike.
Embracing Kashmiri culture is a great way to infuse your wedding with some authentic touch of the land where you tie your knot. From the Mehendi ceremony and exquisite Aari embroidery to the sumptuous Wazwan feast and heartfelt Dastar Bandi, each tradition is sure to tell a story that will enhance the celebration of your love; and to seamlessly incorporate these elements into your wedding, partnering with Joyweavers can make the planning process effortless and grand. Their expertise in local customs and connections with artisans will help you curate an authentic and memorable wedding experience. With Joyweavers by your side, you can focus on celebrating your love while they handle the details, ensuring your Kashmiri wedding is a beautiful reflection of both tradition and your pair.
